Thank you soooo much! Gives me some hope. I ended up telling him I wouldn't linger anymore when I pick up our son, that maybe we should just pick up and drop off, don't ask me to come in a have a drink with him, ect... We had also planned to take our son to Disney in Feb (his idea), I almost called it off, but then told him our son was really looking forward to both of us going, so I didn't want to disappoint him and I would go. I think I almost killed any chances but I think I managed to salvage the trip at least. I can't help but think that is a good sign?
I just get so confused when it feels like he's hanging out with me because he's thinking about possibly working things out, and then he verbally tells me that's not probable, but maybe in a couple years... or the "never say never".
