This exactly why most affairs don't work out. Sooner or later, it ends for one reason or another. Then, like my XW they realize they've lost everything. I can already see this comming with my XW. The OM is gone and she's surrounded by nothing by yes-friends who are just using her.
mishka,
Yes, she's in therapy twice a week and seeing a psychiatrist. She's very co-dependent (among other issues). Actually, when we got married, she took on many of my hobbies, passions and friendships. I saw it for what it was and encouraged her to spend time with her friends and find her own personal passions.
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08
