NC with wife for one week

[GoBison]

Thanks for checking up R2C. I will let her be for a few days and then try to get ahold of her later this week to wish her luck on her race. 10 mile

I am trying to be patient and I have been the whole time. It is just getting really frustrating with her not even making any attempt at anything. I don't call she gets mad. I try to call she doesn't answer. Everything that I do is wrong in her eyes. Even if we have problems she shouldn't be acting like this and not want to try anything. Yeah I know I read the whole WAW article.

If she would have said that I was controlling and I was well that is something that I could work on. The house we bought I didn't even see until I pulled up in the Uhaul. She thinks that I am jealous and I don't call or bother her for 2 months. If I was controlling or jealous wouldn't I have. It's just frustrating and I am venting. Yeah she is spoiled and I am to blame in that. We held off having kids for 6 years because she wasn't ready still wanted to party. In the mean time I did everything she wanted waiting around for her. Then when she is ready she walks out the door.

I am in a town where I know very little people because she wanted to move here. My entire retirement is going to be wiped out on a house that she wanted to buy. I turned down a better job so she could move here. She makes twice as much as me and I will get nothing in the divorce. I am pretty much going to have to start all over in my life because she was unhappy for a couple of months and doesn't want to talk about it. And I am the one who wants to save my M. There must be something wrong with me.