So nice to hear from you Forrest! I've missed the heck out of you!
Yes, we have been here over & over again in the last 2 1/2 years, however, it's taken on a different hue this time.
We're heading into court tomorrow morning & paper is now being 'spit' back & forth. My H so did not like the Mediator's proposal & take on the sitch, that he filed a slew of Declarations, one of which was at least 40 pages long.
So, we are now engaged in what seems to occur when you enter this stage & why the chances of R greatly diminish by the day.
I still can't wrap my mind around why an intelligent, in business anyway, man would submit anything to the courts that can be easily proven to be untrue.
One of many is that he raised his D27 & always had an equal sharing visitation sched. He did not meet her until she was 10yrs old when they came looking for the father, as her mother was in rehab. From that time on, he had infrequent contact, although he did provide for her. It's all on file, what could he be thinking?
So many damage causing events are now taking on a life of their own that I have lost any desire to put myself through anymore of this with him.
We may have had a chance if there was a faster turn around & it didn't get this far, who's to know.
So, I still won't make any dramatic movements because I know better, with 6 days left until what could be D day, I don't really have to I guess.
New guy is giving me a little space to get thru this & being supportive at the same time.
