Here's a question, how do you stay connected with your kids while trying to give W space and time.
Set up a scheduled time for them to call you. When the schedule is hectic just txt your wife and say, "Calling in 5 mins to talk to the kids." Have a routine.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
