No, she doesn't talk to me when they aren't around. However, I seem to have more access to the kids when her parents aren't around.
I have no conversations with her, except over e-mail. I try to keep those short and with the LR techniques - just the necessary things; otherwise, she starts ranting about all the things I've ever done wrong in her replies.
Me: 35 W: 31 D10, S7, S2, S11 months M: 11 years Tricked into separation. In Last Resort.
My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1800530#Post180053