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The day started out great today....The W said you wanted to talk, so lets talk. It ended up with her telling me how I have made her feel over the 15 years..Then saying "I don't love you. I have no feelings for you at all other than a friend--why can't we be friends if we divorce?"

I asked why are you going to retrouville then. Why not just call it right now? She tells it has only been 5 months.

So is there a time limit in divorce? If there is no love, no effort on her part, she doesn't care about my changes, then what do I do. Just go on living till she feels that no one will think bad of her because she put the appropriate amount of time into pretending to try on this marriage? Retrouville is just a checklist to say well I tried. Retrouville is about leaving the past behind. It can't make someone love you again...