Thanks CTH, I really appreciate this post. It definitely helps with a situation I am in. It is very hard to not contact the person and going through the move out is really hard but I am going to get it all out this weekend and then let things progress from there.
Yesterday was the hardest part because it was the most I missed her since I moved on Sept. 5th. Day by Day is hard and for the most part I am usually cool until night time, then it hits and hits hard. I feel you on the analogy of breaking up. I am trying to limit the contact as well. It is not easy, my little girl who is 6 misses her a lot. She was basically her step mom for the last 2 plus years. Not sure how to handle it most of the time. The worst is when you do things YOU KNOW you shouldn't like texting your feelings, sending cute e-mails, etc.
