I often write "letters" to my W. They're not meant to be sent or even read.
I've been doing this. I sent her several after my Marriage Rebuilders class. I've kept a few written on the spur of the moment -- including before my W's birthday earlier this month -- that I didn't send and unless something miraculous happens she'll never see.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6