I'm pretty sure my XW seems to think that once she gets her life together, that's there's a chance again for us. The last time I met with her to sign the divorce papers she said she wanted to leave the door open and maybe sometime in the future there would be an 'us' again.
News flash: it's my turn now. She divorced me and thus all rights to what's going on in my life. Not to mention she doesn't even realize what kind of hell she put me through for the past two years.
You know what's really nuts about all this? Throughout all of our marriage, I really tried to help her find her own interests, passions and friends to help her keep her identity, yet she (even after the divorce) continues to copy/ mirror me. It's like she's still trying to be like me and I'm not even around anymore.
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08
