Yep Pup. The humor is actually right on and strength for sure becuase there have been many many instances where I could have blow up on H these last few days but I figures why bother. Eg. before we left for the weekend, I had text him what time would he come over since he was spending the night at our place since we had to leave out early. And good ole H never responded and then when I followed up was to find out he was first going out with his cousin so I know he didn't want to commit to a time. I was a bit bothered and was going to say womething but I figured what the heck. He did tell me though he was already packed from like 7pm the Fri night. So I took care of my stuff and he came home afterward. I could have easily blown up on him about not putting me first, etc. But instead I didn't. He was even filling me in on him and his cousin's night out.

So I can't agree more that strength and self control is needed!!!