i have talked to mine about this day-- the one we all think about. When/if our children say they want to leave and live with them. My c said that if that happens i am to call him - and set up an appointment with him and d13. he is level and not emotionally involved... do you have that option??
your x is an A@@ and I am so sorry he is such a dirtbag slime ball poop!!!
ur x must have forgotten about hormones, and education, and tears, and boys, and everything that goes with raising the kids... RAISING them. its easy to be disney dad.. not easy to be a parent.
oh and the car thing.. here is a thought. DONT stop him from getting her one- think about it. PLAY it back on him. IF he would buy her one if he is livin with him. WE KNOW it is a manipulation ploy.... BUT you could ALWAYS turn it and say.. wow.. that would make it EASIER for you to go to dads and come home....... TURN IT trusting...
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again