All I'm saying is to focus on the current reality and solutions rather than cause. I find it very challenging myself because I want to say, "hello...yes S9 is depressed, because his dad is gone. How the heck do you think we fix that?"
Really good points A&K. I'm working hard to do exactly as you describe. It's effin hard though because I'm standing on a toothpick. I have no cred whatsoever and even the slightest mention of anything regarding D14 that is connected to our S sets of a toxic response. Because in the end, I originally left and she told me so.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
