C, I am just now getting to reply after reading through your thread. First, I am sorry to hear about how the horrible way he acted this weekend & treated you. I agree that you handled it like a DB champ! If Puppy & Breakaway say so, you definitely did! You sound like you are handling this so well. Sometimes we're too close to the situation to be able to see that & that's where the perspectives on here are so important. I am keeping you in my thougths to stay strong & keep it up.
Yep you're right. Your H sounds just like mine, with the "we have to talk" bit all the time. Except for that I have little/no communication. I've had maybe 2 emails from him in the past 2 weeks.
I have gotten much from your thread - your posts plus Puppy & Stronger, there's great advice here. I don't feel like sitting down & talking about this either. My C says I should let the Ls do it, just as you've been advised.
The big difference is my H has not admitted to an A. I sometimes feel like lashing out when he hounds me & demanding to know the truth, because I suspect that is reason he keeps pushing on D. Haven't done it yet. Since we have been separated now going on 6 mos., & don't have kids to keep us in regular communication, it's hard to confirm.
C, please hang in there. You are doing an incredible job in a very very tough situation. Try to reward yourself for it! I'll check in again. LFA
