You're staying calm, walking away, having multiple "good" days with H, and gotten apologies. This seems like a lot of change in the little over a month that you have been on this board.

You even sound stronger in your posts.

Give yourself some credit

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.