Thanks guys. You'll never know how valued your input is.

It's so hard to talk through this stuff with family and friends who have never been "here." They just don't get it. Everyone's response is "just give her a taste of her own medicine" or "kick her to the curb".

You guys get it. I appreciate your time and insight.

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.