Ah, SP, that intellectual gift of so many of us does have its limitations. Because in spite of all the research and data analysis, in the end the choice of action is often based upon less intellectual--and therefore more subjective--data: that which is in our hearts. And no amount of objective analysis will, ultimately, override that.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012