Ah, SP, that intellectual gift of so many of us does have its limitations. Because in spite of all the research and data analysis, in the end the choice of action is often based upon less intellectual--and therefore more subjective--data: that which is in our hearts. And no amount of objective analysis will, ultimately, override that.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012