The goal is to repair the R, if possible. And, part of that is getting her to initiate the R talk.
FIWI, I don't see the connection between repair and her having to be the one to initiate. Not necessarily saying you should, but why does it have to be her?
It doesn't. I just don't want to put pressure on her. Yes, this is the fear part in me. I don't fear that she will D me. That's either going to happen or not. I fear what if the timing is not right.
