Over the Shock and GALing 6

[Coach]

"Two people meet and are so compatible that they fall madly, deeply in love, and that love is so strong that even when they fall on hard times, that love is the foundation that can carry them through and that they can build on to keep the marriage going."

In love = connection = fixable

If she was in love with you then she would not not be in love with you. She would have that love (the being in love kinda love) which she craves to persevere. You will be surprised at how fast you can re-kindle the connection.

All the reasons below matter:

- "We have 13 years of history together"
- "We have 3 children, and agree on how and cooperate well in raising them"
- "We like to do the same things, travel to the same sorts of places, etc"
- "We have the same group of friends"
- "I get along well with your family"
- "We have the same outlook on health, physical activity, etc"
- "We (used to) both have the same need for physical affection and sex"
- "We have worked out most of our issues around money, household chores, etc"
- "We are learning to communicate better than ever before"

Now is not the time to get impatient and frustrated.