There is no one else on the planet that has a 13 year history with her. No one else has children with her. No one else who knows her the way you do. No one else that she vowed to stay with for the rest of her life. No one else that would have put up with this cr#p for nearly a year to be with her.
Everything that she's saying is part of the script. It's amazing how history can be rewritten. Granted, I am sure that she did have some unhappy times. She wouldn't have married you if she didn't feel compatible with you at some point though.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.