my wife said she read the first two chapters of DR

[sumguy27]

TB, I think you just have to have some time and give her some space if you really want to work at it. You have got to start doing some 180's and just go dark. What I had to learn myself is to stop blaming my wife's friends. Yes they may have some influence in the situation but they don't really control the situation. You've got to just sit back and let her come to her own senses. It took me awhile to get to this point also. I know its hard and it kills you deep inside slowly. Also its only up to you if you want to say its done or over with. If the next day you tell yourself to keep trying then your not done yet. It's been taking me about a month to realize my own situation that GAL is for myself. Its the best thing to do to not dwell on your R. I know its easier said then done. But if you don't contact her at all she might begin to wonder what you are doing. Its going to take time bro just hang in there if you want to.