Over the Shock and GALing 6

[Thinker]

Somebody help me here. I think I am being far to rational.

I have heard it time after time in our discussions: "We have no foundation for a good R. We never had it"

I listen. I hear.

But I think...

- "We have 13 years of history together"
- "We have 3 children, and agree on how and cooperate well in raising them"
- "We like to do the same things, travel to the same sorts of places, etc"
- "We have the same group of friends"
- "I get along well with your family"
- "We have the same outlook on health, physical activity, etc"
- "We (used to) both have the same need for physical affection and sex"
- "We have worked out most of our issues around money, household chores, etc"
- "We are learning to communicate better than ever before"

So what do you MEAN there is NO foundation???

I don't understand.

I've asked for more info, but the answer is the same "It's 'chemistry'" "It's Genetic" "It's because you are an Aquarious(Thinker) and I am a Pisces (Mrs. Thinker)" - "Some couples have it and some (we) never will."