Friday night H forgot to call the girls to say goodnight but he did call my cell that night (a first) to apologize for not calling.
Saturday, H picked up the girls an hour late. I gave him the $100 check and wished them well. I offered him coffee, but he said he had already had some. Then they left. I decided to go grocery shopping and notice that H was driving back from Starbucks (geez, won't take my coffee but will take my $100 and go to Starbucks. Nice).
H called mid afternoon (very rare for him to call me since he was with his daughters) and asks me to check my phone because he had texted me (a first). Well, it turns out he had texted me an audio file of youngest D2 singing "Twinkle, twinkle little star" - very sweet!
I went out with friends from about 5:00 PM until 3:00 AM... had a fun time. Called H around bedtime and said goodnight to the girls. He then proceeds to tell me that the funniest thing happened to him and that he ran into an old friend's aunt at his apartments - (huh, all I can think is - great now more of our old friends know that you moved out and left us).
Interestingly enough, H called back 1/2 hour later to have youngest d say goodnight - again. Makes me wonder if he was a little curious about my whereabouts.
That night, I texted him... "hope the girls went right to sleep for you, thanks for calling".
Sunday, I got up late...real, late and cleaned the house. I also made food so that it would smell really good when he dropped off the girls. He barely came in. Nice but very short conversation and he was off to his other life.
This morning my youngest d had a purple headband that she wanted to wear to day care. I asked where she got it and oldest D said "from dad's apartment". GREAT, now my kids are wearing OW's headbands... I let her wear it to school... hope it gets lost or damaged. Well, that's all folks...life rolls on and I'm still stuck!
HIW M 35 H 37 D 5, D 2 Married 1996 Dating 1992 Met 1988 EA/PA started March 2009 Bomb 6/16/2009 Separated 6/23/2009
