strong & patient (most days)

[dday101798]

I just still think establishment of temp custody and visitation order is a must. Heck right now he could be spending all this time with them all the sudden to go in to court and say "hey, look at all this time I spend with my kids, I'm their primary caretaker!"

As much as you think he might not, you need to think he will. D is an ugly ugly business.

And, for the visitations, might I also suggest a neutral pick up anddrop off point, especially the police station. When I did that to my X she finally started to gt the hint I wasn't playing around.

As for the school, yeah, I was highly upset with curriculum night. The way it was geared was you spent 9 minutes in each period of their school day. Well, that's great if you have one kids, or another parent to cover the other kids class. I stopped the principal in the hallway and said that I thought it was great the way they were 'mocking' the kids school day and all, but what if you have 2 kids? He said, "simply send the other parent". And if their isn't one? "Oh, we didn't think about that". Heh, in this day and age of "disposable marriages" they didn't think about that. Sad.