I initiated contact with a simple question. First I greeted him telling him I hoped he had a safe trip back, that I wish him luck today as I imagine he has a long day today. Then I simply asked, if he wanted to continue with the joint sessions. His response:
"Hello W. Yes, I am ok with joint sessions.
I will stop by the house today at 6 pm to see the kids.
Regards, H"
That was it. Now I don't want to return to the same counselor we have for the kids. I would like to try Retrouvaille and it starts this weekend. I want to ask carefully but don't feel I have the right approach. Anyone?? Or should I drop it. This feels like such a delicate dance.
I think it's a good sign he said he's ok with it. I'm afraid to push it. Now what?
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