I wonder if you just couldn't ignore him. He is obviously going to hold your check ransom or your kids. The court needs to be aware of this behavior from him asap. Did you ever check with the local police as to what they could do? I know this is going where you don't want it to but this has got to stop.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory