Newbie (again)

[dday101798]

Hey Sg, yeah you can rest assured your XW will respond in a variety of ways once she finds out you're letting someone else in your life.

Mine knows my boys ARE my life now. She also convicts me of dating someone she doesn't particularly care for. Well, yeah, you're right Sg, here come the boundires. She does not like it one bit when I say it's none of her business. She does not like it one bit when I am out, for whatever reason. I don't know how, but that woman has some like 'super-esp' or something. Every time I'm out she has S12 blow my phone up.

So yeah, boundries. I made it point blank clear in the letter that I "do not understand the continued anger and angst you continue to hold against me. Our marriage is over and we have released each other to enjoy each of our personal liberties in doing so. There is zero sense in arguing anymore. We are free to do as we wish as I gave you what you sought in a divorce with little resistance in that regard".

That was the only time the letter got 'personal'. it seems apparent the letter was either effective or she's got something else up her sleeve in the works. Either way, the point is out there to just drop it, you have what you "want" and now I'm entitled to do as I wish as well and getting all bent out of shape and not talking is only hurting the kids, not me.