I want my family back!

[Calliope]

Thank you both. Makes me feel better about my weekend. I felt so flustered about the whole thing and felt that I did horribly. I do need to throw in my 'I'm sorry you feel that way' especially when he starts to blame me for the marriage failing. Otherwise we get into the same battle as always.

Breakaway, I know you still think his lawyer told him that he would get raked over the coals and that's why he changed. I talked to my lawyer about that. She disagreed 100%. She knows this lawyer very well, and said he would NEVER tell my H that, he'd never tell any client that. She said that he is so arrogant, and brutal, that he always tells his clients that they are going to win big, regardless of how big of a lie it is. Anyway, I absolutely value your opinions, and wasn't even going to mention this, because I don't think it matters either way. (his actions this weekend have proven his selfishness regardless of how sincere he was being last week!)