So, I gotta tell you guys about my weekend of GALing GALing GALing. And the best part is that it was with my H!!!
So H and I drove up to NH to my friend's wedding. And we had such a great time. The drive was about 4-5 hrs each way and normally when H and I do long drives we listen to music and chilled but this time both ways we chatted the whole way and it was gooooood conversations too. We talked about us, family, friends. Everything. As city slickers we thought the place we stayed at was so country, but it was nice to get away from teh city. H even decided that this is our weekend so he turned his phone off and even left it in the room the whole time. From the start of our trip it was nice. We usually drive my car to go out of state but H wanted to drive his. Before we left we bought us breakfast and eve whne I offered to but gas he insisted that he got it. He actually made me feel so special this trip. H was even so nice at the wedding, open, funny and loving. My friend even said, your H seems like a nice guy. I feel like I'm on such a high from this weekend, it was all very nice. It's so good to get away from the city.
H even held my hand and said don't worry we will make it. He was sweet.... I know I know I need to keep my cool, and I tried to, but I was really happy inside and out.
The only thing it was a bit hard to have H leave once he dropped me home, but I figured take it wasy and let things work themselves out. So I gladly let him go and reminder myslef of babysteps but it was hard.
I must say one of the biggest changes I've made since this sep is in regards to H's son. As I told him in the car that i don't want us working out to cause any pain for his s, not on account of me, if ow wants to keep him away taht's on her but not me. So I hope and think H appreciates that. We were never before on the same page where it comes to his son so its nice that its no longer a sore subject. We now talk about him and its nice.
Anyway, just wanted to share the good news since I always share the bad.