Originally Posted By: ClingingToHope
Had she asked I probably would have worked something out, but she didn't ask. In the past, I always took it upon myself to organize where the girls would stay on a day off from school, but that's not my job right now.


Nope, not your job. I'm the caregiver type and really struggling with making sure I don't do things that are no longer my role. I really liked what my IC said about making sure that the dynamic during the separation not be the same as it was during the M.

Have a great week!!


HIW
M 35
H 37
D 5, D 2
Married 1996
Dating 1992
Met 1988
EA/PA started March 2009
Bomb 6/16/2009
Separated 6/23/2009

"Once you choose hope, anything's possible."