You know, I wonder if I'd ever be able to truly forgive my H for "abandoning" his kids and me if he ever chooses to come back.
My dad left as a teen and I had a pretty strong stance that "men leave"... so much so that look what happened.... my man left.
The fact that my H slept with someone else... totally forgivable. The fact that my H gave his heart to someone else and put her before wife and children and LEFT.... hmmm, not sure (but still trying).
HIW M 35 H 37 D 5, D 2 Married 1996 Dating 1992 Met 1988 EA/PA started March 2009 Bomb 6/16/2009 Separated 6/23/2009