You know, I wonder if I'd ever be able to truly forgive my H for "abandoning" his kids and me if he ever chooses to come back.

My dad left as a teen and I had a pretty strong stance that "men leave"... so much so that look what happened.... my man left.

The fact that my H slept with someone else... totally forgivable. The fact that my H gave his heart to someone else and put her before wife and children and LEFT.... hmmm, not sure (but still trying).


HIW
M 35
H 37
D 5, D 2
Married 1996
Dating 1992
Met 1988
EA/PA started March 2009
Bomb 6/16/2009
Separated 6/23/2009

"Once you choose hope, anything's possible."