Divorced and want to reconcile...

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Agreed, keep doing what works with the activities and all and let him build his securities back up. Contrary to popular beleif, most men are very frail when it comes to their spouse leaving them for someone else.

You have been friends the whole time along and that is very good.

Heck, even after all the vile things I've been subjected to at the hands of my XW (and certanly have not been the best of friends either), I would certainly concider giving her another chance once my insecurities were relieved.