Fallgirl,

Hope you had a better weekend.

Mach's questions are very good ones. The answers are a little harder.

#1, hard because is the answer is no, then you have to look at yourself a bit differently. If yes, then you have to decide how YOU want to proceed based on that feeling.

#2-an even harder one and that is one that you may have to answer daily for a long time

#3-Well... I do believe in MLC. Depression drives it. It could probably be called something else but it is a real phase that some people experience in their lives. Personally I believe that the depression is accompianied by some very deep anger. That is in large part what I think makes it different from MLC.

Is H/W having one? Only each of us LBS can decide that. Not anyone else, a therapist, friend, family member. We have to decide, and the answer the other questions and step forward for ourselves.



"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox