Same thing with me last night. She slept in our bed, no real cuddling or affection but I can almost feel the weight on her shoulders with her planning on leaving this next weekend.
I'm 100% serious when I say I have no idea what the day, let alone the next hour, will bring in my world! It sounds like you may be slowly headed in the right direction.
When I said 'cuddling' I meant we went at it like bunnies. We laid there undressed just touching and kissing afterward for a while and went at it again. It was sensual and comfortable. Just no overtly stated ILY's or "I never want to be w/o you" type of things were said.
Apparently your W is as conflicted as mine. I'll jump to your thread and comment more on that in a bit.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.