Picked up my D yesterday afternoon. I was thinking I would be getting her early afternoon after church, but was later informed it would be around 5. Oh well.
When I picked her up I attempted to have minimal conversation and just get my D and go. The X attempted to ask me about halloween costume and I just said we would take care of it. She also was asking me to feed her and I said I would. I was just making extra effort to not engage in discussion with her and appear we were in a rush.
I feel like my X just took my weekend visitation with my D. She took her to Disney on Ice and the Bday party.
At any rate it was my weekend and she should have known and there should have been no plans on her part. If she did want to do something like that she should have asked me. right? I am ok with sharing her on my weekend, but she refuses to on her times. I don't get to see her any other time than my court ordered visitation times with her. The X does not go out of her way to facilitate that at all.
She wanted me to do several Sun overnights to make up for my weekends lost. I don't think that is fair at all and makes me think she wants to make plans for the Sunday evening.
I was struggling with this last night. Feeling betrayed in taking away my weekend and this enabling her to set up something on her Sunday evenings I am sure.
