Once again...I'm sure that she's planning to go still, but this will give her plenty to think about while she is alone in her new place.
I had previously been thinking that a night like this would lead to some big epiphany and things would suddenly get better. I'm not expecting that anymore. I'm more along the lines of thinking that these are drops in the bucket helping to fill it up.
When we were done..."cuddling" she is the one who asked to stay in with me. This preceeded by her initiating some of the kissing earlier, saying the affection this week wasn't just for me, curling her head into my neck/shoulder and saying that she wanted to sleep there because it is a place of "comfort" for her have all been really nice.
She didn't get clingy 'after' last night, but did say how comfortable she was. No ILY's and I'm sure she is still planning to go, but I'm going to just spend the morning reflecting on some of the positives.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.
