This is my big dilemma. I've spoken with Jim about this too. I'm just curious as to your take on it. I believe in that the MLC is a real thing. It would be hard NOT to. I have two thoughts about my W in relation to all of this.
1) Maybe she's not going through an MLC. Maybe she has another issue that she's not telling me. Even if that is true, it doesn't change how I respond to her. We've talked about that before.
B) I keep hoping that eventually she'll come out of the MLC fog or whatever. There's no guarantee that she'll talk to me about any of it even if she does. I think maybe this is my worry here. She may hit bottom, deal and move on. I could never know. If she's not in an MLC, this part never happens. If she is, it still might not happen.
I'm not looking for a guarantee ... just processing.
