Wanting to cook and keep her house clean is a great sign. When I am happy, that is a natural activity that comes through me, but when I don't give a cr@p....then it shows in my lack of homemaking skills. She seems to be treating this like a "new relationship" and that is wonderful b/c you don't want that other one back. I think the fact you are not rushing back too quickly is wise of you b/c if you did, her sexual response would die, so you want to try to keep that evaluated for a while. I realize that a woman has to own her response (from what the oldtimers here on the board use to tell me) but the man can do whatever he is able to help keep her in that mood. You sure found what button to push that made her come to life. It's kind of sad that that is the way we humans are wired, but it's true never-the-less.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
