Just spoke to W and I’ve found out from her what it is I said that upset her. She had said FIL is getting depressed over his cancer, so I said is that (depression) dragging everyone down. That is when she cut the conversation cos she said that was an inappropriate comment by me. She says now that she feels she can’t count on my support anymore and she doesn’t want to discuss his condition with me. (I say now a massive WTF). Any way if I hadn’t spoken to her this would have dragged on for weeks with me not knowing.

Anyway, just got to get on with life.