Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
Originally Posted By: Hope4Luv
Well the screaming is back - in full force. Non=stop. I think this whole thing is not working for me.


Boundary issue. If he starts screaming, you leave the room. Conversation over.


Will do. Again. For the thousandth time.

I snapped this weekend - just couldn't take it any more.

But I'm crazy for thinking talking to him when he's like that is going to get me anywhere except in a deeper pit of h*ll.

Thanks for the reminder - after reading your post, I did just that. He continued to scream from across the house, chased me into my room, but I held firm and walked the other way. He eventually left.

That's when he threatened a big ugly divorce too.

However, he has since come to his senses, so it may not have immediately worked, but it did work eventually.

THanks = man, why do I need these obvious reminders? I do = for whatever reason.


Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship