here is the key: "HE is feeling unhappy and his R is in trouble", he is putting a huge guilt trip on him because now that the craziness of the A is gone he's seen the damage he's caused and now wants to pin it on YOU!! this makes me so mad!! how in the hell where you supposed to react?? now that things are not going his way it turnes out it's all your fault because you reacted in a way he wans'at expecting? that is the biggest load of cr@p I've heard so far, do NOT believe it.

If he really wanted his M he would've fought for YOU as a woman and his wife, not because he is miserable and alone and wanted his old life back.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.