Hello, My ExH and I have been getting along well, we were and still are friends. I thought we respected each other and we have a son together. He recently talked about the sadness he feels towards me (I ended up leaving, thinking being with someone else would be better than all the heartache we had been through). I found out the fairy tale does not exsist and that he was the fairy tale. He was a really good guy and for some reason the way we communicated played into my insecurities. I realize so much now, with the help of my counselor and the horrible, horrible relationship I was just in for the past 1 1/2 yrs.
A few days ago he talked of possible reconciliation, but not when. So we went to a few events with our son together and almost acted like the old days when we were married. But tonight, I broached the R topic and he just said, he feels too much sadness towards me and cries when he talks about those feelings. He said he didn't see a future with me, but never say never. Don't wait for him, just do my own thing. I was crushed.
I told him how I realized a lot of things I did and with the help of counseling, we could have got through some of the communication conflicts we had. I'm filled with sadness and pain. I want to correct the situation and want nothing more than my family to be back together again...advice?
