BUNS, ABS, AND HEART OF STEEL #3

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I might try to change the subjest and do not even discuss it with my teen
I say this only b/c I have a 14 year old
sometimes she may rant and rave about something that is out of the question
so I listen momentarily if I can with reacting and then excuse myself..no discussion around it
I notice most of the time she will stop
forget
But if your xh leeps bringing it up to her and she keeps reapeating , it will be harder to avoid and let her forget
I would do anything..to not allow my D to live with my xh at this point
he is not stable
so I know you will handle it the best possible way
Im sorry you have to go thru it
I wiah it would end already
my situation remains very unstable as well
my xh like yours appears to continue down his MLC path unreconizable
scary
and I cannot even have a rational coparenting talk with him
it is very hard
we are here with u
peace