I'm also considering an email to her but I thought I'd run it by the folks here before I do that.
Basically, it would be that I want to move on with my life but that I'll always try to be there for her. I still love her and always will. That when she's open to it (after the MLC) I will drop anything to be with her.
Let me know if it's a dumb idea. Lots of those lately.
Hey man, no dumb ideas here. Just ones that are driven by emotion and not well thought out.
I would not send the email. What are you trying to accomplish? You are basically giving her a free pass to do whatever and she can come back to you whenever she feels like it.
Whether she's in a MLC or just a WAW, you treat them the same initially as far as DB is concerned.
Just take a deep breath. You are understandably angry and hurt right now. No good decision was ever made when emotions are driving it.
48 hour Rule: Wait 48 hours before making a major decision. If it's a good idea, it will still be a good idea in 48 hours.
Deep breaths. You have to be the bigger person here.
