The coffee date became lunch, then dinner and he stayed the night, he wasn't initially going to stay the night. We did have some more talks, which is good, as the talking is coming a lot easier now.
In our big conversation, he asked what I was doing on the computer so much, who was I talking to etc, because he felt I was being secretive about it and hiding the computer from him. I told him I had been on a site where people experiencing marriage problems but were committed to trying to resolve them supported each other. I didn't mention anything about posting though. He was happy with that and it was not mentioned again.
We still have some ground to cover and I think we both know and have accepted that our old M is now gone and we are starting out on a different level now. More mature and much wiser.
