I'm also considering an email to her but I thought I'd run it by the folks here before I do that.

Basically, it would be that I want to move on with my life but that I'll always try to be there for her. I still love her and always will. That when she's open to it (after the MLC) I will drop anything to be with her.

Let me know if it's a dumb idea. Lots of those lately.

~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)