I'm not saying you should wait another minute for him. I was merely going off of the fact that in Greece, you said it takes a year for the D to finalize. That said, I'm saying that he would then have a year to prove to you that you should cancel the M.
I was saying to tell him exactly what needed to happen one last time and then it is up to him. As for you, in the meantime, you'll move forward w/out thinking about him or feeling you are "waiting" for him.
If he acts, then that is great, however, in the meantime, you may find yourself involved w/someone new and then it will truly be too late for stbx.
Wait? No! No! No! Never wait for him. Instead, file, give him very, very clear instructions as to what was missing and let him know you are moving on. From there, he has a year to either try to prove his love to you and your importance to him or not.
Regardless of what stbx chooses to do w/the information, you'll move on and he'll have a choice to make.
So, I guess I'm saying to continue to do whatever you can to get the D in motion. From there, you move forward and the clock is ticking on any hope (however slim) stbx has to prove himself to you.
