Been pretty busy lately. Got a decent sized project, working out, cleaning, and taking care of the 1,000,000 kid things that seem to fill up my time completely. As of late, the wife and I have actually been having talks that go beyond "I am bored"....lol. The guy friend is moving away and has basically blown my wife off for the last three weeks. The funny thing overall...my wife's GF basically abuses her ending that relationship and guy friend just stops talking to her. Yet she still doesn't want to work on our relationship or do things with the kids. It is really confusing....she once said "Why is it that the people you don't care matter, and the people who do care don't matter". She is a confused messed.
The bad thought on my part, is I hope that she is learning from all the marriages that seem to be falling apart around us. She has been posting on Facebook how horrible it is for her and old friends have been responding with "What is wrong?". Of course from there, she talks with other wives complaining about their husbands. Just today while she was having a conversation with a friend, she went through the list of all the things the husband is doing wrong...and then ends "You were never that bad"...LOL....duh. I brought up the fact that so many families are in financial distress at the moment, but she coldly reminded me that our problems are more than just financial...I wonder if she realizes a lot of our problems result from her spending time with everybody else she meets other than the kids and i....probably not. So today she is out bike riding with the co-worker friend. Supposedly it is just fun...but we will see. At this point I really trust nobody anymore. I am just seeing so much irresponsible behavior all around me.
Well time to make the bed and finish my beef stew.
