That I forgave until I lost myself, that I communicated but wasn't heard. That really, most of the time I gave it all I had but it takes two. And two of us just weren't doing it. And I can live with that answer.
Another piece of the puzzle, well done! Self-awareness! Also vital for the Going Beyond of resentment. You have to know things about yourself.
That, cf @Greek, is one of the things I was missing when I "wasn't" SP but was SP-with-WAW.
