Yes, when it comes down to it, the kids are not enough to make the M work...and, as much as I wouldn't be able to tolerate a cr*ppy marriage for my kids "benefit," I understand that H has the right to refuse that too. That is what defuses my resentment. If he can't do it with feeling, then he doesn't serve anyone by coming back...
My thoughts exactly. For me and him. And after a year of crap, I cant tell you that is true. No use if your heart isnt in it. My kids are worse than how they were last year... K
